The Sex Toy Double Standard

Friday April 29th, 2011
Via CrackInTheRoad.com, Joel Chima writes:
Sex Toys freak me out. Not least because the very idea of them eclipsing me in the bed room is a fairly scary thought, but also because the idea of a vibrating plastic thing doing what should in my opinion be a manual, sensual act is a bit of a turn off. Regardless of my opinions, female sex toys are a completely accepted phenomenon. The facts speak for themselves, according to a 2004 study, over 50% of the women asked said that they regularly used sex toys, with most women saying the toys were used during a relationship and that the device wasn’t used as a substitute for a partner. Furthermore, a whopping 90% of the women who said they used sex toys, also said they were open and honest about their ‘hobby’ to their partners and friends. Couple this with shops like Ann Summers, who have recently seen huge boosts in profits (19%), and it’s safe to say that the sex toy train has no chance of derailing anytime soon.

It all sounds rather healthy right? Sexually liberated women getting down and dirty with a vibrating piece of plastic might not be my ideal image, but I can see perfectly well why it could get some people off. More importantly it’s a completely acceptable thing to do, if anything it’s more of a taboo for a woman of the 21st century to be opposed to such ‘paraphernalia’.

With that in mind, picture this scene. You’re a young, attractive, city dwelling woman on a night out and a man catches your eye across the bar. He’s young, tall dark and handsome, who knows he might even have a mustache? Words are exchanged, you say seductive and sexy things like, “Did you know that a chicken lays an egg every single day!” (I know right??) or even “did you know that in Victorian times, whores wore pubic wigs?”. With facts as fascinating as that, you’ve pulled. So, able and willing, you totter back to his flat. You get through the front door; it’s not bad, definitely not bad enough to prematurely feel guilty about the imminent ‘casual sex’. You make it into his bedroom, his sheets are clean, always a bonus, things are generally going well: and then you see it. A large, fleshy looking tube shaped device otherwise known as a ‘Flesh Light’ (other sex toys are available).

Now we get to a cross road, a cross road that 9 times out of 10 leads to the revealing of the ‘sex toy double standard’, a phenomenon that has intrigued me of late. Whether we like it or not there’s a massive stigma attached to the very idea of a male sex toy. Band the idea around a group of friends and the same words tend to come up; creepy, sad or the well-known phrase “get a life you fucking weirdo and try getting laid”. It’s simply not acceptable for a man, such as myself, to get freaky with his own self-fulfilling piece of wonder plastic. The natural reaction is to assume that these attitudes are caused because a small minority is actually using them, but this isn’t necessarily true. More and more men seem to be purchasing these sorts of male orientated products, yet despite their increased popularity the prejudice towards their use is still as prevalent.

So why is this? For me it comes down to 3 things: the nature of the male orgasm, the nature of the toys themselves and finally the way society thinks men tend to view sex. Lets start with the male organism. I think we can all agree that as a rule, the male orgasm is pretty shit; it’s short, comes out of nowhere and can’t be experienced again without a re-charge period. The fact that a man would want to go to such lengths to heighten something that isn’t great to begin with, compared to a female orgasm, is for me where all the problems start. As well as this, the way of stimulating an orgasm is pretty much limited to one physical action, again compared to a female orgasm with a variety of methods, the male experience looks a tad rubbish in comparison.

The main problem it seems stems from the toys themselves however. Whichever way you look at it, flesh lights are creepy. Its not like a dildo that comes in all shapes and sizes, a flesh light looks like a vagina, and a fucking scary one at that. The primary aim of the flesh light it seems isn’t to necessarily create pleasure for pleasures sake, but more to replicate the idea of being in a woman/man. Sure, dildos often replicate penises, but its more what it does, than what it looks like while it’s doing it. In contrast, when buying a flesh light you’re offered a choice of which orifice you prefer, with even the option of going for a cast of a famous porn-star now available. When put like this, the description of ‘creepy’ might not seem so harsh.

But regardless, I think that if male sex toys are ever to be accepted, we need to re-evaluate how ‘we’ view sex. Now obviously I’m not asking for a group huddle to create a plan of action, but if this ‘sex toy double standard’ is ever to be shaken, the stereotypical throwaway attitude we assume men have towards sex needs to leave with it. As a rule, society assumes that women have a more emotional outlook towards sex, environmentally this might be true, but scientifically it’s anything but. Scientific American’s Martin Portner came to the conclusion that women actually shut down in emotion-processing regions during arousal and orgasm. So this position that men want a pump and a squirt, while woman enjoy the solitary, emotional pleasure of a rampant-rabbit induced orgasm, scientifically holds no weight.

So after all this waffle, what should we do? Well if the female sex toy revolution is anything to go by, we should fully embrace the idea of the male sex toy. A world without preconceived ideas about sexuality and the ‘dos and don’ts’ that accompany them can only be a good thing. So while you all get on with sexually liberating yourselves, I’m going to stand back and find the whole thing really fucking creepy.
We at RealTouch, of course, agree that men should fully embrace the idea of male sex toys. But further than that, they should embrace the entire experience that a good device like RealTouch can offer. What are you waiting for?
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Happy Secretary’s Day!

Wednesday April 27th, 2011
If we’re going to take a day to honor secretaries — and we should, they deserve it! — let’s make sure we honor some of the hardest working ladies to ever don a skirt and sexy glasses and offer a helping hand to her fellow office mates, okay? So, in honor of Secretary’s Day, here are a few great clips of our dedicated babes doing just that.

With your RealTouch, you can really find out what it means to be in the boss’s chair for a day!

  
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Experience Full Streams Ahead

Wednesday April 20th, 2011
With Full Streams Ahead, Chris Streams brings you his very own brand of one-man bukkake. Chris delivers an absolutely enormous load right to the face of each and every girl, but not before he’s fucked them left, right and center. Don’t miss superstars like Jenna Haze, Shyla Stylez, and Jada Fire as they get to their knees after the fucking of a lifetime and beg for a huge load in the kisser!

In this scene, you get to experience RealTouch favorite Tori Black getting down and dirty. Whether you want a blowgirl, missionary, or reverse cowgirl, Tori is up to the challenge here! Thanks to RealTouch, you can get the FULL experience of this banging babe!

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RealTouch Star Briana Love

Monday April 18th, 2011
Brianna Love started out stripping in Missouri when she decided to move to Las Vegas and pursue the life of an adult film star. When she first entered the biz, she only did girl on girl. Eventually Brianna gave in to her love of cock and started doing boy/girl scenes too. Having signed an exclusive deal with Red Light District, she made a name for herself because of her love for anal sex and her extreme willingness to do interracial movies. Brianna slowly climbed the ranks in the porn world in late 2005 until she became a free agent.

Anal sex is definitely her forte, as quite a lot of the 250+ movies she’s done involve anal or some sort of double penetration. She’s a perpetual “box cover girl,” appearing on the box of most of the movies in which she stars. Brianna also has some pretty solid interests outside of porn as well. She is an avid writer of poetry and also dabbles in the art of songwriting. She has a beautiful daughter that she’s raising while she makes her living in adult entertainment. Brianna won two AVN awards in 2008 for Best Tease Performance – Brianna Love: Her Fine Sexy Self, and Best Gonzo – Brianna Love Is Buttwoman. She followed up that success with a 2009 AVN Award for Best All-Girl Group Sex Scene – Cheerleaders).



Briana Love in the RealTouch Theater

Briana is currently featured in three scenes available in the RealTouch theater, from the films Twisted Vision 3, Pornstar P.O.V., and Ass Almighty 2.

     
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REALTOUCH USERS CHOOSE ASHLYNN BROOKE AS THEIR FAVORITE VIRTUAL PARTNER IN MARCH

Friday April 15th, 2011
Beautiful blonde Ashlynn Brooke, a porn star with a classic girl-next-door look, was the most popular actress among users of the RealTouch male intimacy device in March.

The honor is just the latest for the Choctaw, Oklahoma-born Ms. Brooke, who was named earlier this year by CNBC as one of the 12 most popular stars in porn. RealTouch users get to have a simulated sexual experience with her as they watch her in a video on demand clip that syncs with the device.

Other stars on the RealTouch Top 10 list for March were regular favorites Lisa Ann, Nicole Ray, Sasha Grey, Bree Olson, Jenna Haze, Penny Flame, Alexis Texas, and Cytherea. A new contender for a coveted position in the list is European dream girl, Monica Sweetheart.

“Our research indicates that RealTouch users are generally well educated, affluent, early adopters of new technology and ideas, so they are discerning when selecting their favorites. While certain stars will always seem to dominate the charts, it’s great to see our users create new favorites with solid talent like Monica Sweetheart,” said RealTouch sales manager Scott Rinaldo. “RealTouch is creating an entirely new fan-base for these stars, as consumers get to experience them in a new way”.

The Top 10 movies watched by RealTouch users in March were “Multiple P.O.V” from Vouyer Media studio; “Sex Fiends No 5” from Platinum X Pictures; “POV Centerfolds 7” from Zero Tolerance; “Teen Hitchhikers 6” from Cinemaplay Entertainment; “It’s A Daddy Thing 5” from Elegant Angel Productions; “Stuffed Petite” from Overboard Video’ “Busty P.O.V.” from Elegant Angel Productions; “Sex Fiends No 5” from Platinum X Pictures; “Schoolgirl P.O.V. 6” from New Sensations; and “P.O.V. Punx 2” from Burning Angel.

Ranked by studio the Top 10 included Zero Tolerance, New Sensations, Third Degree Films, Elegant Angel Productions, Jules Jordan Video, Platinum X Pictures, Vouyer Media, Overboard Video, Digital Sin and Red Light District.
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Experience Kayden’s College Tails

Monday April 11th, 2011
Beautiful Adam & Eve contract girl Kayden Kross leads a hot young cast of coeds through a fun & fresh sexual education. They’re sure to put lead in your pencil as they play hard to be head of the class!

In this clip available on RealTouch, perky coed Brooke Lee Adams is working on some xxx-tra credit, showing off all of the things she’s learned at F.U. and she sure puts that desk to good use! You can put yourself in the action and decide for yourself if Brooke deserves the A she’s banging for!


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RealTouch Star Leah Luv

Saturday April 9th, 2011
Leah Luv was born on July 28, 1984 in sunny Long Beach, California. Although her young face, A-cup breasts and metal covered smile make her appear barely legal, Leah is actually a hot MILF. She is the mother of a little boy who is the center of her universe. Leah got into the industry in 2003 at the age of nineteen. Since then she has worked for several leading studios. Leah has also appeared in major films like the 2007 blockbuster Not The Bradys XXX in which she played the role of middle child Jan. Leah has also worked as a director on one film, Leah Luv’s Sweet My Ass for Anarchy Films, in 2006. With over 360 movies to her name, you have plenty of Leah to Luv!



Leah Luv in the RealTouch Theater

Leah is currently featured in two scenes available in the RealTouch theater, from the films I Love Your Sexy Feet and Not The Bradys XXX.

  
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PARIS HILTON REMAINS THE MOST POPULAR VIDEO ON DEMAND CELEBRITY FOR REALTOUCH AND AEBN, WHICH RENEWS HER DEAL AGAIN

Monday April 4th, 2011
Hotel Heiress: The Paris Hilton Sex Video, the notorious sex tape made by the famous hotel heiress, remains the most popular celebrity feature offered by the RealTouch interactive sex device for men and VOD leader AEBN, which has renewed its exclusive contract to stream the video for another year.

AEBN first offered the intimate Hilton scenes in 2010 under a pay-per-view agreement with XPays and HotelHeiress.com. The original six-month engagement was then extended for six more months on both AEBN.net and RealTouch.com, and now they have been authorized to continue to offer the video for another 12 months.

“Paris Hilton as an adult star is just phenomenal,” says AEBN VP of Sales and Marketing, Jerry Anders. “This video has been around since 2004 but it still remains extraordinarily popular. Our AEBN viewers and RealTouch users continue to want to see it, so we’ll continue to offer them that opportunity.”

Hotel Heiress: The Paris Hilton Sex Video features the blond heiress and her then-boyfriend Rick Salomon in a no-holds-barred bedroom romp and although there have been rumors of another Paris Hilton sex video, it remains the only Hilton footage ever made public. Owners of the high-tech RealTouch male intimacy device get to have the virtual experience Salomon was enjoying while he was being filmed.
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RealTouch Star Kylie G. Worthy

Sunday April 3rd, 2011
Blonde, bold and ready to display her love talents on screen, Kylie Worthy is a MILF extraordinaire with a motor for sex that just doesn’t stop. Her blowjob abilities are far above average and her male co-stars are proof of this when you watch their eyes roll back in their heads. Collecting studios on her resume like Pink Visual, Mayhem, and Anarchy International isn’t a tall feat for Worthy. She proves herself over and over and isn’t intimidated by sexual acts or cock size. She’s even taken on Mandingo in West Coast Productions’ Mandingo’s Desperate Housewives. Worthy has filmed movies centering on niches such as blowjobs, interracial, creampie and more. She has box covered for MILF Fever and Desperate Mothers and Wives 7. Her credentials are more than worthy enough to match her last name and she will no doubt make waves wherever her sexy little body takes her.



Kylie G. Worthy in the RealTouch Theater

Kylie is currently featured in two scenes available in the RealTouch theater, from the films White Wife Black Cock 8 and MILF POV 6.

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